A WhatsApp message popped up on the screen and woke me up one night while sleeping in bed. I thought it was an emergency, but it’s simply a girl who wants to say hi, “How’s life, Victor?” Joanne, who was my girlfriend in Hong Kong, sent me the message. “Did you get my message?” she… Continue reading The lost message
Dear readers, Thank you for reading my blog and being interested in going through the journey with me. You probably have your dilemmas to face and the challenges that you need to overcome in your life. That’s why you were interested in reading my blog to see how I deal with them. You know why… Continue reading Continuous improvement
I wasted most of my time in secondary school on dating girls. I wish I spent more time and effort studying, but as a boy growing up in puberty, the hormones affect the brain. Unfortunately, there was no subject in the academic curriculum to teach me how to love, nor my family would openly discuss… Continue reading My memory of the time in secondary school
When I was a kid, my mum always said to me, “Money is not everything, but everything needs money.” This is the financial education I got from my mum. How true is this statement? I did not know at that time as I was too young, but when I grown up I found the wisdom… Continue reading What money cannot buy
Are you single? Or are you married? Maybe are you married but available? For those of you who are single or married but available, you know that finding love is hard. I am an active user of dating apps, Tinder, Coffee meets Bagel, OkCupid, Hinge… you named it. Dating apps are brutal. Let me tell… Continue reading Swipe left or swift right?
I was 28 and she was 32. Maybe. This is just my guess anyway. I never know the exact number since I never asked. Age is a big secret for women, and they worry about it so much that it’s rude to ask. My best guess is that she’s slightly older than me, although I… Continue reading A love that not meant for me